You captured how I am coming to feel about it too. Sad. I've been a college football fan for more years than a lot of board members have been alive, but my passion is waning. I find it tough to get invested in young athletes when they are not invested in the team. That is not a condemnation of them. I get the economics and such. But I used to know that when a player committed to OU or UB that they were in for the duration in all likelyhood. Now, even at P5 schools, you can't get invested. Caleb Williams taught me that.
I'll keep my UB season tickets, and go to most of the games; catch the odd UB road game; and see a few more games elsewhere. It's okay, but it is surely different. And life (and football) go on...